50+ Dating Facts & Statistics
AARP reported, in a September 2003 study of singles aged 55+, 49% said, "Having someone to talk to or do things with" is the most important reason for dating.
AARP's September 2003 survey cited these as the Top Three Complaints of Singles in their 50's:
Men
- Dating partners with a lot of baggage - 42%.
- Women who become extremely difficult to get along with after a few dates - 28%.
- Women who want to get serious too fast - 18%.
Women
- Dating partners with a lot of baggage - 35%.
- Not having a clue where to meet men and meeting too few new men - 23%.
- Overeager men who want to get serious too fast - 21%.
AARP reported in September 2003 dating can be daunting, regardless of a person's age. But for those 50+, being single can have its own challenges, including:
- Many have set habits/routines, enjoy their freedom and are less likely to change.
- Divorce and failed relationships can add baggage.
- Children and elderly parents can complicate dating.
- Wrinkles and extra pounds.
- Other physical appearance changes diminish self-esteem and create intimacy issues
Ask Dr. Schwartz
Q:
I've been on-line for the past two years, and have been on lots and lots of dates. However, nothing ever pans out. I'm attractive, physically fit, look young for being 55 years old, I am without an ex-husband or children, have no debt and no addictions. I see myself as a really nice and down to earth woman. Yet, I'm alone weekend after weekend. What are your thoughts on my situation?
A:
You obviously attract men easily and I think that's because women have a better idea of what they want. You may want to revisit your PerfectMatch.com profile and refine it slightly – especially if it has been a while since you last updated it! Make sure you update your photos, expand on the "In My Words" section and recheck your Deal Breakers to make sure they provide an accurate assessment of where you are at this stage of your life. While you are at it, you may want to consider retaking your Duet® Compatibility Profile.
Remember, PerfectMatch.com isn’t about the "quantity" of people you meet, but rather the "quality" of people you will meet. I'm convinced you can find someone who will be more than just a coffee date! You are at a great time of life and have shared many, many advantages to being over 50+ years old! Don't let yourself become frustrated. Finding the right person at the right time is very much worth the effort! Sometimes it simply takes a little bit longer, that's all!
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